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At MamaBabyBliss it is part of our mission to work towards better health for and wellbeing for babies. This page features all our blog posts filed under the 'Baby Health' category.
A baby’s skin is six times thinner than an adults and absorbs substances much more readily. That’s why as a company, we believe that natural is best. During baby massage, we massage every part of our baby’s body including their tiny little fingers and toes. As we know, babies are fond of nibbling on both! So, when we moisturise our babies it’s important that we use something that is safe to be ingested.[Read more…] about Why it matters what we put on our baby’s skin
The following guest post was written by Wayne Dickens.
Finding out that I was going to be a dad for the first time was the biggest moment in my life. So many emotions hit me at once; excitement, sheer joy, awe, anticipation, amazement and, if I’m being honest, a little anxiety. As the early weeks went by the anxiety quickly retreated and was overtaken, wholly and completely, by excitement. Then we had our first scan and wonderment consumed me, my heart skipped a beat the first time I saw our daughter wiggling around on that grainy screen. As the trimesters passed I imagined what she might look like, what character she might have and what it would feel like the first time I ever held her in my arms. I imagined all the things that were to come; first crawl, first steps, first words, first birthday… Then the day came, I wouldn’t have to wait any longer, deep breath, being a dad would start now.
This is a guest post by Áine Homer, the Baby Reflux Lady. See her at www.thebabyrefluxlady.co.uk
There’s nothing independent about a baby who is constantly unsettled. Velcro doesn’t come close. Attached perhaps. Siamese maybe.
And why is this?
Simply out – a baby who is unsettled is usually uncomfortable, perhaps in pain. A baby who is constantly unsettled may have colic, reflux, silent reflux or food intolerances and allergies. And above all else, this baby needs comfort and reassurance. And the only person baby associates with these in abundance is mum.
It doesn’t have to be this way.
Reflux is resolvable
Completely. Too many parents hear the words “baby has colic”, “it’s normal”, baby will grow out of it” or phrases to that extent. And are sent home, “reassured” that it is normal. That the high-pitched screaming of their tiny infant is somehow normal. That inconsolable crying is normal. That still not being able to settle or sleep peacefully by the age of 8 months is normal.
I want to let you know that there is nothing “normal” about this.
Common, yes. Normal, no.
Because it is not “normal” I want to share something more about reflux with you. Reflux is a symptom. Even though it has the word “disease” in its full title, it is not a disease (Gastro-Oesophageal Reflux Disease). There is no underlying pathology. As a symptom it has a cause and in having a cause it has a resolution.
The resolutions however, are specific to the exact cause(s) of the discomfort in each baby. So what works for one baby often doesn’t work for another. That’s why there are so many suggestions and “try this”, “try that” for infant reflux out there. And all of these address the symptom, and try to make things easier. They do not address the cause. And this includes medication.
Secondly, infant reflux is completely different from adult reflux and so should be treated differently. There is nothing wrong with baby. They have an immature digestive system, which is normal.
And what comes a surprise to most of my clients is just how much they can do to help their baby.
Resolving your baby’s reflux is so important. Unresolved discontent in a baby introduces incredible amounts of stress into relationships, affects the mental health of mums and dads, who are often forgotten, has a massive impact on siblings sense of self and position within the family unit and knocks external relationships into touch.
So what can you do about your baby?
Firstly, you can figure out what is causing it. By understanding the cause, you can select the course of action that will have the greatest impact on your baby without the guessing, trial and error.
Typically, there are two causes of this discomfort – aerophagia (baby drinking too much air) and the interaction between milk / food and their naturally immature digestive system.
For example, if your baby is incredibly uncomfortable when feeding, and at every feed, then they are drinking air, without a doubt. Depending on your baby, this could be because of a tongue tie*, irrespective of formula or breast fed); because of birth stresses (e.g. ventouse or forceps delivery), misalignments and stresses in their cranial bones or tension in their jaw**, or it could simply be the interaction between their mouth and tongue and the bottle teat because every baby’s mouth structure is unique.
When it comes to understanding if Baby has food intolerances, this is where we focus at the bottom end of things. I recommend that you keep a detailed food and symptom diary for this (examples and downloads on my website) and try to see the patterns after about 3 or 4 days.
There is skill involved in reading your baby’s symptoms to understand which is going on and then what to do about it, which I address in detail in my book, and I walk you through in my webinar.
The Baby Reflux Lady’s Survival Guide is available now on Amazon.com (https://geni.us/Reflux) and available to order through most major retailers.
For more information to figure out exactly what’s causing your baby’s discomfort, visit Áine at www.thebabyrefluxlady.co.uk
* Tongue tie should only be assessed by a registered tongue tie practitioner or an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant
** Stresses and tension in the head, jaw and neck should be assessed and resolved by a chiropractor or a cranio-sacral osteopath who specialises in paediatrics
Reflexology is a treatment where gentle pressure is applied to the feet or hands using the thumbs and fingers. It is based on the theory that reflexes in the feet and hands correspond to each organ and structure in the body, and are linked to those organs by energy channels.
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